Wednesday is reader question day. I got this question a while back and I’d like to try and answer it the best I can.
Is it okay to lend my boyfriend money when he is completely broke? For instance if he needs money for fuel and other basic necessities? He has been having a financial crisis for a while due to a business deal gone wrong. He has promised that he will refund. I keep hearing different opinions about how a man should never borrow money from his girlfriend or any woman and that a woman should never lend a man money or give him money as it’s his responsibility to provide and not the other way round. I am confused on what to do? Please advice. – *Joyce
Thank you Joyce. This is a question that is asked often so your concern is valid. Like many relationship questions, there is no straight answer. Many times in relationship issues there are a lot of underlying issues and those have to be dealt with first. In this case, lending him money depends on several factors: [Read more…]